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back to the topic,
Here something I want to share, it could be sensitive topic tapi apa ada aku kesah (hahahaa) In this semester, my second semester finally I've meet s'one yang boleh aku minat, *mata ke atas* hahaha yes ni kali pertama aku minat s'one dekat kolej. And yes aku tahu dan sedar perasaan tu tak perlu dilayankan sangat pun sebenarnya. sumi-masen Baiklah, untuk menjawab sesuatu yang tiada soalan, we were in the same class. Class "Silat Olahraga" tapi tak sama course dan macam tak sebaya. (habislah kalau ada cikgu silat yang terbuka link blog ni, matiiii) perasan je ni, Since dah terkantoi dengan member yang aku minat that guy, dia nak tolong stalkkan insta mamat tu. Tapi belum sempat accept request tu aku dah jumpa twitter dia dan..... .... .... HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND ALREADY.. AND RELATIONSHIP DIORANG DAH BERTAHUN. bye .... .... HAHAHAHA aku tak broken mana pun it just, kenapa macam sekejap sangat aku boleh minat dia? Its okay sis move on dah and taknak lahh minat-minat budak dekat Instedt ni lagi, taubat. cukup lah sekali. Lepasni kena fokus lagi jaga mata, jaga hati. :) . .. .. and by this day, I bring something from kak Aisyah Shakirah, 
THE QUEST FOR LOVE
Relationships has never been something Iβm brave enough to write about, especially in public. The love between a man and a woman to me is very personal. Add religion into the equation and it just becomes very sacred to me. I do not wish to write too long, since I have classes tomorrow at 9am and itβs exactly 4.30am right now. However, I just need to let a few things off my chest because it has been bothering me for quite a while now. Also, due to my hectic schedule, this is the only time I have to write- though I swear to god Iβm super sleepy right now
Before we jump into the topic, yes I am single. Have I ever been in a relationship? The answer is also yes. I know how it feels like to love and be loved the same way I know how it feels to be completely shattered. You see, different people have different definitions of love. I strongly believe that the people we fall in love with can sometimes reflect the kind of person we are. For instance, I really value religion, knowledge and ambition. Thus, if i were to marry someone, I look for someone with these exact characteristics. I want someone who has the same goals that I have. Someone who will not only fight with me to succeed in this world, but also in the hereafter. I need someone who works just as hard as I do, not someone who is always tired and only cares about sleep. No more time should be wasted with whiny and lazy ambitionless boys. If youβre serious to pursue a relationship, look for a man.
If thereβs one thing a relationship has taught me, it is the importance of maturity when it comes to love. NEVER indulge in a relationship just because itβs a βniceβ feeling. If you want to be with someone might as well be with a person who will help bring the best out of you, spiritually, mentally and also emotionally. If the relationship you are in is leading you towards the haraam, leave. No buts. It is just the end of a toxic relationship, not the end of the world.
By the way people, it is perfectly OKAY to be single. I have been single for over a year now, and wallahi I have never been this happy and I have been achieving so much. I always tell my friends that when you are single, you have 27 hours a day. What it essentially mean is that youβll have more time for yourself. I know some people who can only seek comfort in the presence of their significant other. After one relationship ends they feel the need to jump into another. Chill people, chill. Take a breather. You donβt need another person to feel sufficient. Try to be comfortable and at peace with yourself with or without a relationship. You have the rest of your life to be spent with your significant other, so while youβre single, might as well really embrace/enjoy it.
Okay last point before I hit the sack, never settle. Ya Allah I canβt stress this enough. Being single is better than being with the wrong person. As they say, itβs better to wait long than marry wrong. If we dont know what we deserve, we will always settle for less. But to deserve more, we should first be more. Build your character before you choose to build a family. Study hard, learn new skills, take up a hobby, read more, travel. Thereβs so much that can be done when youβre single for your personal development. Take care of yourself. Your health, spirituality, intelligence, akhlak (good character) etc & inshaAllah youβll get someone whoβd do the same for you.
I know this entry is all over the place, but Iβm half awake so do forgive me. I hope you find this post helpful. As for me, call me philophobic but I am personally afraid to be in a relationship again. But when the time comes, I hope the guy I end up with will be proud with the lady I have become. If you happen to read this, whoever you may be, please know that not a day passes that I donβt make doβa for you, and for us. Wherever you are in this world, I hope you are also striving to be your best self. May Allah make it easy for us to find our way to each other. See you when I see you!
Ending this cringey post with one of my favorite quotes from Rumi,
Lots of love,
Aisyah
"exactly what I have in mind" -Ridz
yes, he bring me to read this.
aku paling suka this quote,
Jim Rohn once said, βThe greatest gift you can give somebody is your own personal development. I used to say, βIf you will take care of me, I will take care of you.β Now I say, βI will take care of me for you, if you will take care of you for meβ
dan aku hanya nak cakap,
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hearty-hearty jaga hati;
lets move-on!
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anyeong.
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